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I really need some time off. And Red River, New Mexico, may be just what the doctor ordered. We’re headed for the Red River Family Encampment today and a week of rest, relaxation and spiritual growth. Here’s the encampment’s theme and scheduled speakers this year. Although I’m sure it will be good, the program doesn’t look very “family” oriented. I didn’t see any classes for families, marriage or parenting.
I really appreciate my Childress family giving me time off and away. I am excited that the forcasted temperatures for the week are supposed to be in the mid 70’s. I won’t miss the 90’s and humidity that we’ve had in Childress.
I’ll have very limited internet capabilities there. I do plan to try and post a couple of times, but I probably won’t be able to comment much. Hope your week is good.
Blessings till later …
Did I mention I got to do a little fly-fishing last year? I hope to do the same again.
Our worlds of Christianity and sexuality are commonly viewed as being miles apart. Someone once said, “Christian sex” is an oxymoron. We don’t talk about sex or preach about sex unless it’s a sermon that deals with “the sinfulness of sex” outside of marriage. When was the last time you heard a sermon preached on the positive side of sex or a sermon from the Song of Solomon. I’m not saying we need to be discussing sex openly, but we’ve got to understand that God created sex. Why not at least tell people what He has to say about it from a biblical perspective?
Believe it or not, God created sex as something good, and the bible actually has a lot to say on the subject. You may think, with all the warning about not having sex before marriage, that sex is bad. The Bible says something quite contrary to that. Sex is biblical, if looked at from a Godly perspective.
Here’s what I see the Bible saying about Sex…
Sex is a Good Thing. Sex was created by God as something good. He gave a husband and a wife this gift as a way for them to express their love for one another. God did create sex to be a beautiful and enjoyable expressions of love, but only between a man and wife (Genesis 2:24; Proverbs 5:18-19; Song of Songs 7:6-7; 1 Corinthians 6:13). God also created sex as a way for a husband and wife to have children or as the bible says, “be fruitful and increase in number” (Genesis 1:27-28).
Sex was Created for a Husband and a Wife. Sex is in just about every movie, book, television show and song on the radio. Our world has become lax about sex, making it seem like sex is okay with anyone because it feels good, but the Bible does not agree. God created sex for the confines of marriage only, and He calls us to control our passions and wait for marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2-3; Hebrews 13:4; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4).
God wants each Person in the Marriage to Conscientiously fulfill their mate’s sexual needs and desires. Strong sexual needs exist in both husband and wife. Sex in marriage is wonderful! But like all blessings, there can be an accompanying curse. Unfulfilled sexual needs sometimes lead to illicit relationships. God addressed this strong sexual desire and need in humans through the writings of Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:2-5. “But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”
For more information read Joe Beam’s article on Sex and the Bible or see Focus on the Family’s Sex & Intimacy page. Also an excellent book is Ed Wheat’s book, “Intended for Pleasure.” This book should be a must read for the “about-to-be-married,” the newlywed and the long-time married.
I had Lea proof this for me last night before bed. She said reading this gave her a headache (joke).
Fathers Day is Sunday. And as I was finishing up my thoughts on this Sunday’s lesson on being a father, it got me to thinking… “When I’m gone, what do I want my children to remember about me?” Here are a few things I hope and pray my children will remember …
Dad was not perfect: Lesson – It’s okay to fail.
Dad was willing to play with us: Lesson – It’s okay to have fun.
Dad was in love with mom: Lesson – Relationships aren’t disposable.
Dad loved God: Lesson – God should be number one in my life.
Dad told me a million times he loved me: Lesson – It’s okay to communicate love.
Dad put his foot down when he needed to: Lesson – Rules are necessary.
Dad spent time with me: Lesson – Nothing communicates love more than time.
Dad was a good role model: Lesson - Practice what you preach.
Dad was a good listener: Lesson – Put others before yourself.
Dad was always willing to say he was sorry: Lesson – Ask and give forgiveness.
Don’t forget to honor your dad. Here are a few links and posts on Fathers.
Sorry, nothing serious here today. It’s been a long week and I could use a laugh. I smiled when I received this photo via an email. I thought it would be fun to see who could come up with the best caption for the photo. So, best caption wins … um … a kudos from me. So let’s work on this over the next couple of days.
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Here are my thoughts about marriage, family, raising children, humor, faith and the life God intended for us all. I am a Christian husband and father, who moonlights as the minister for the church of Christ in Childress, Texas. My wife Lea and I have been married for 25 years. We are doing our best to raise our 4 boys, who are all growing up way too fast.
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