MARIO KART & THE AGONY OF DEFEAT

I love playing Mario Kart on the Wii, but I have a problem, I can’t seem to ever beat my 14 year old son.

Yes, I know that 14 year olds are in their video-game-prime, but I don’t like losing to him EVERY TIME! I thought about grounding him for winning, but Lea quickly nixed that idea. Then there was the idea of rigging the game so I could win, but the game can’t be rigged.

So I did the only thing a dad can do to be competitive against Connor … I practiced. I practiced Mario Kart before he got up, when he was at school and when he was over at a friend’s house. I practiced hard and believe it or not, I got better.

So the other night I asked the question, “Hey Connor, you up for a little Mario Kart?”

“You sure you’re up for it Dad?” he asked with just a hint of cockiness.

And the game was on. After a little quick warm up race, Connor selected the track “Bowser’s Castle.” Ugh, I hate driving at Bowser’s Castle, because there are so many objects to hit and so many turns, but I felt ready so I didn’t say anything other than, “Let’s do it.”

When the race started I was off like a flash. I immediately got a bonus-boost and was in first place (a spot I’m not used to being in). It was amazing, I was driving a flawless Mario Kart race. I avoided getting hit by shells, and I even dodged boulders that were regulars at smashing me. Not only was I dominating, but I took a quick peek at Connor’s screen and noticed he was frustrated and running fifth. Lap one of three came and went, and I was pulling away. I could smell V-I-C-T-O-R-Y, not only against my 14 year old nemesis but also against Bowser’s Castle, a place that just dominates me.

I crossed the finish line in first and did what any mature, humble father would do … I danced a victory dance. I threw down my controller, pointed at Connor and said, “Who’s your Daddy?” “WHO IS YOUR DADDY?” I had finally won!

I didn’t more than get those words out of my mouth when Connor said, “DAD, DAD … That was only the second lap! We have another full lap to go?”

“NOOOOOOO!”

By the time I found my controller and realized what I’d done, I was in last place. In fact when the race was over, I came in dead last and Connor recovered to take first. I’d gotten a little cocky and had celebrated a full lap too early.

I’ve now come to realize two things about video games and life:

1) God never intended for fathers to be able to beat 14 year old sons at video games.

2) Pride comes before a fall.

“So if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you do not fall” ~1 Corinthians 10:12

HOW CHRISTIANS ARE SUPPOSED TO ACT

It’s a well known fact that waiters and waitresses all across America hate working the Sunday lunch shift, because of the way they are treated by “Christians” who eat out after Sunday morning church services. I find that absolutely and positively ridiculous.

It’s also a common known fact that not only are Sunday lunch “Christians” some of the rudest costumers, but they are also the worst tippers. I also find that ridiculous.

How is it possible that we can sit though a worship service and praise God for being gracious and compassionate to us, and then go chew on the waitress after church for not keeping our glass full? How can we come from church where we’ve taken communion and thanked Jesus for his forgiveness and then stiff the waiter’s tip because he mixed up our order? That just doesn’t make sense to me.

Instead, waiters and waitresses OUGHT to be fighting over who gets to work the Sunday lunch crowd, because we SHOULD be the nicest, most compassionate and BEST tipping group of people all week.

Our goal everyday should be to show to others the same grace and the same mercy that God has shown us. And if you don’t think others deserve it … just remember neither do we.

This past week some friends of mine got together for lunch. After the waitress had done her best to serve she asked them, “Is there anything else you guys need?” They said, “No, we’re fine. Is their anything we can do for you?” When they asked, she opened up her heart to them about problems she was having with her family, job and paying the rent. Before long they were all circled around her and were having a prayer for her. With tears in her eyes, she thanked them as they left.

Those guys are my heroes because that, my friends, is how we should live and interact with people … everyday! And you and I need to do the same thing.

Oh, and did I mention, my friends threw together a big enough tip to help pay their waitresses rent? Pretty sweet story, huh?

FACEBOOK, MARRIAGE & HONESTY

I’m never quite sure which posts I write will strike a nerve with people. Some posts I have written that I’ve thought would be well-liked, were passed over like beets at my dinner table. A few times I’ve written things that have made a few people mad. Then there’s those occasions when I post something that really takes on a life of it’s own, like the post I did a few months ago called, “10 Facebook Rules for Married Couples. Amazingly this post is still getting amazing amounts of hits and comments. I’ve been called by two different people asking to quote things in articles for newspapers and publications. You just never know what’s going to strike a nerve.

I think the nerve that I hit with this post didn’t have as much to do with Facebook as it did with openness and honesty in marriage. People can’t get over the fact that their spouses are not being open and honest with them. Instead, husbands and wives are hiding things from their spouses on Facebook, in email and in text messages.
Just recently I read where apparently a wife had connected with an old boyfriend on Facebook and had been communicating with this guy for months. She apparently decided it was time to break the news to her husband along with the news she planned to leave him. They had been married for over 10 years and had two children.
And then, this morning the news reported a similar story, this time from a woman whose husband had apparently been involved emotionally on Facebook with several other women. And yes, he too planned to leave his wife.
One counselor said this, “There is nothing wrong with text messages, email, Facebook, Twitter, etc, but we’re learning that marriages that were already having “little” issues with honesty, are now having full-blown honesty issues due to some of these new things.”
I’d like to say ONE MORE TIME: “The glue to your marriage is openness and honesty. Your marriage is the one place that there should NEVER be dishonesty. NEVER hide things from your spouse (text messages, email, passwords, etc). When you are unwilling to share these things, it’s a sign that something is NOT right.”
Marriage is about intimacy, and dishonesty KILLS intimacy.

Here is a sample (one of many) of a comment that I received that broke my heart:

“Unfortunately I am one person who truly wishes these rules had been observed by my (now ex) husband. While I strove for transparency in regards to my own online activities, my ex completely hid his facebook activities from me, to the extent where a virtual stranger was the one to make me aware of his wholly unpleasant activities.


All in all, your second rule (Never hide things from your spouse) is the most important rule to me. If my husband had been as transparent as I was, we could potentially have saved our marriage and avoided all the other incidents which consequently led to it’s breakdown.

Thank you for posting this enlightening and strengthening article.

I hope that many more of your readers will help generate awareness of this page (as I indeed will) so others may benefit and understand too.”


Be open and honest, it’s one of the greatest things you can do in marriage.
“The Lord detests lying lips, but delights in those who are truthful.” – Proverbs 12:22

TULSA WORKSHOP

I’m at the Tulsa Workshop this weekend. I love the Tulsa Workshop. Every year they line up some amazing speakers. They have 5 speakers to choose from for each session, making the toughest part of the day deciding which speaker to go hear. Don McLaughlin kicked things off last night with an AMAZING lesson. I can’t wait to hear the lessons today.

I’m honored to be doing two classes this year:

  • “Take Up Your Cross, Not Your Easy-Chair” is about taking spiritual risks and how God made us to be risk takers. I find it interesting that Jesus always had lots of praise for those who were willing to take risks in their faith.

  • “Becoming Jesus in the Lives of Others” is a class about making a difference in the lives of others. I’ve been looking forward to this lesson for months.

If you’re at the Workshop this year … enjoy. If you’re not, make plans to come next year.

I’d be honored if you’d remember me in your prayers this weekend.

WEDNESDAYS ARE SPECIAL TO ME

There’s not a Wednesday that goes by that I don’t think of the Dump People. This is their day… their day of the week to be fed. Every Wednesday Marc Tindall and a group of Christians make a trip to the Tegucigalpa dump in Honduras to feed starving people who live there. Sadly, the dump people have spent the last 6 days searching the trash for something to eat. While we’ve been asking questions like, “When or what are we going to eat?” they’ve been asking questions like, “Will we eat today?” Today is Wednesday … so they’ll eat today. That warms my heart.

In a little over a month, on May 5th, we’ll have our second “Feed the Dump People Day.” Last year’s “Feed the Dump People Day was incredible. Feel free to drop by this blog on May 5th and make a pledge. With your help we want to continue this ministry.

“Jesus said, ‘For I was hungry and you game me something to eat, and I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink. And the people responded, ‘When did we see you hungry and give you something to eat, and thirsty and give you something to drink?’ And Jesus said, ‘Whatever you did for the least one of these, you did it for me…’” Matthew 25



Thank you for your continued support of the Honduras Project…

I’M RICHER THAN A MILLIONAIRE

Last week while in Miami I had a chance to run on South Beach with a big group of men. One of the men I had the privilege to meet was a multi-millionaire. I’m not sure I’ve ever met a millionaire before, and I surely haven’t run with one. As we ran I found out [...]

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MIAMI TRIP 2010

Here are a few pictures from our Miami trip… Taylor and Lea Connor & Cooper … the water was REALLY cold. An 8 mile run with the Raven. Someone needed to be buried in the sand. Connor volunteered. Taylor & Parker It was beautiful at South Beach. Wow, it was cold. Parker It was Spring [...]

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MY BUCKET LIST

A bucket list is a list of things you’d like to do before you die. The term “bucket list” became popular from the 2007 film by the same title. It’s not unusual to hear people say today, “That’s on my bucket list,” meaning it’s something they want to do before they die. I’ve lived a [...]

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I’M NOT USED TO SEEING THESE FUNNY TREES

(Out by Homestead Motor Speedway. Palm trees everywhere. Not use to seeing palm trees … or this many trees, period) We’re having a good time in warm sunny South Florida. Our planes were hours behind schedule, when we got in on Saturday, so we didn’t arrive in Miami until nearly 11 p.m. It was good [...]

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AND THE BOOK WINNER IS…

CARISSA … at 4:14 pm she said, “My husband and I are always looking for good things to read as a couple. These look like the perfect place to start. Thanks for the suggestion!” Carissa, if you’ll email me at treymorgan @ msn . com with your address I’ll send you a copy of … [...]

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SPRING BREAK

After a long cold winter, I’m ready for some warm sunshine and to spend some time on the beach. I can’t wait to hang out with Taylor and the Miami AIM team. It’s going to be a great week. What are your Spring Break plans?

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WANT TO FEEL CLOSE TO GOD?

Some people will do anything to feel close to God… I simply read this!

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RUNNING WITH THE REAL FORREST GUMP (THE RAVEN)

On Miami’s South Beach, you’ll find Robert Kraft, better known as The Raven. He’s there every day. Robert made a New Year’s resolution back on January 1, 1975 to run 8 miles every day that year. Now, 34 years later he still hasn’t missed a day. Eight miles every day for the past 34 years. [...]

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I AM ADDICTED

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"GRILLED MEATLOAF? WHO ORDERS GRILLED MEATLOAF?"

Last night Lea and I went to Amarillo with four other couples to catch a nice dinner and a play. We ate at Logan’s Steakhouse, and I thought I’d eat healthy, so I ordered the grilled fish. Lea ordered the grilled meatloaf. It didn’t take me long to question her ordering skills (or lack thereof), [...]

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"GIVE ME 3 GOOD REASONS I SHOULD GO TO CHURCH"

A wife came back into the bedroom only to find her husband STILL in bed on a Sunday morning. “Honey,” she said, “You’ve got to get up. You’re going to be late for church.” Pulling the covers up over his head, he grumbled, “I’m not going to church this morning.” “Yes, you ARE,” his wife [...]

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WHO INFLUENCED ME

My friend John Dobbs came up with a great idea this week. He said, “Let’s all blog about a minister who has been a great influence in our lives. Post about someone who has influenced you in a positive way.” I love John’s idea, and I gladly accept the challenge to tell you about two [...]

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LIVE STRONG

I’m excited about today. Due to a cold rainy morning, my day started at 5 a.m. with P90X instead of a run. I’m also taking the day off to spend with my beautiful wife. We’re long overdo for sneaking out of town, doing some shopping, and having lunch together. I can’t wait. My goal today [...]

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LEA HASN’T ALWAYS BEEN THE ONLY GIRL FOR ME

Lea hasn’t always been the only girl for me. There have been others. Nine or ten to be exact, and all of them over the age of 70. They were the sweetest group of Christian ladies that I fell in love with years ago. When Lea and I moved to Tulia in 1992, we got [...]

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WE DON’T NEED CHURCH REFEREES

I’m not a big fan of referees. Yes, I have a couple of friends that are (or have been) referees, but I’m still not a fan. They’re kind of a necessary-evil at ballgames, because you have to have them to keep things running smoothly. It’s a hard job to be a referee, but think for [...]

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"THE LETTER" AN AMAZING LOVE STORY

I asked my new friend, Dean, for permission to share his story with you. It’s too good not to share. It’s about all the things I love: marriage, love and God. Instead of me retelling the story in my words, I’m going to let him tell it, exactly as he told me. A little warning [...]

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FEED THE DUMP PEOPLE DAY 2010 – MAY 5th

Last year on May 5th we had the first ever, “Feed the Dump People” day. We were hoping to raise about $2500 to feed the hungry people of the Tegucigalpa dump in Honduras. I greatly underestimated God that day. We didn’t raise $2500, instead in one day we raised an incredible $12,000. That’s just another [...]

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MY TOP 10 BLACKBERRY APPS

I am amazed by all the things a cellphone and smartphone will do these days. On my Blackberry I can check my email, Facebook messages and text messages. My cellphone also has my date book, my “to do” list and my address book on it. One of the things I love most about my phone [...]

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SHE WAS LAYING IN A PILE OF TRASH

I’ve had my heart broken many times by the suffering that I’ve seen in Honduras, but this last trip it was crushed by a little girl who lived at the dump. Probably a dump kid all her life, she only knew a life of hunger, garbage and suffering. The dump is a dark place. Life [...]

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FALLING IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person.” All marriages, including mine, have ups and downs. The goal is to make the ups get longer and the downs get shorter. It should be the goal of any married couple to reconnect on a regular basis, especially if you [...]

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RAISING CHILDREN TAKES OUTSIDE HELP

I learn new things about raising boys all the time. One thing I’ve picked up on lately is how important it is that my children have encouragement from someone other than their parents. They say it takes a village to raise a child, and I’m finding that true with raising my boys. In my life, [...]

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JUST GOOGLE IT

When someone is looking for information, I regularly hear the phrase, “Just Google it.” That means search for it on the internet. When people search Google, Yahoo or MSN and are sent to my blog (or any other site), it’s called a referral. I love looking at “referrals” on my sitemeter. Some people search for [...]

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BAD GIFT IDEAS FOR VALENTINE’S DAY

(Amanda Sanders is one of my favorite bloggers. She is a “must read” on my daily list. I asked her to guest post on my blog and she didn’t disappoint. Enjoy this little piece and make sure you put her blog on your “must read” list.) Valentine’s Day is perhaps the trickiest holiday for most [...]

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YOU NAMED YOUR KID WHAT?

According to American Profile magazine, all of the following are actual names given to children by their parents… Morning Desire Country Musick April May March Beau Hunter Heaven Leigh Friend Arayah Sunshine Shyne Golden Bright Manly Mann Ben Gay III I’ve heard of making your child’s name so unique that they standout, but these are [...]

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THE BEST BIBLE TRANSLATION

Based on Bible sales, a recent study shows which bible translations are the most popular. Here are the top 10… 1. New International Version 2. New King James Version 3. King James Version 4. New Living Translation 5. English Standard Version 6. Holman Christian Standard Bible 7. New American Standard Bible 8. The Message 9. [...]

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IT’S NOT ABOUT ME

I love to preach, and I want to bring my A-game every week. Nothing KILLS me more than when I don’t feel like I’ve done a very good job presenting a lesson. I don’t know, maybe it was because I had the stomach bug this weekend, but I just didn’t have it this Sunday morning [...]

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KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF MY MOMMA

One of the main things I love about the Super Bowl is the commercials. Here’s one that’ll play tomorrow called, “Keep your hands off my momma & keep your hands off my Doritos.” I love it.

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MY BORING CHILDHOOD, ACCORDING TO MY 8 YEAR OLD SON

Yesterday after getting my 8 year old Cooper from school, we had this conversation on the way home… COOPER: “Dad, how old were you 30 years ago?” ME: “I would have been 14 years old.” COOPER: “I bet your life was boring back then.” ME: “What do you mean by that, because my life was [...]

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PUTTING YOUR MARRIAGE BEFORE YOUR KIDS

When it comes to marriage, Lea and I struggle with the same things you struggle with. We often find ourselves taking one another for granted for the sake of less important things. Things like busyness, ministries, work and hobbies will always crowd a marriage for time, but I think the biggest challenge for any marriage, [...]

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HELL OF A FUNERAL

I went back and looked at an old post this morning to see when I first met my friend John Thomas. It was February 7, 2007, because I wrote a post about him. I will never forget the occasion because he made a lasting impression on me. It was following a graveside service that I [...]

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About Me

Trey Morgan Here are my thoughts about marriage, family, raising children, humor, faith and the life God intended for us all. I am a Christian husband and father, who moonlights as the minister for the church of Christ in Childress, Texas. My wife Lea and I have been married for 23 years. We are doing our best to raise our 4 boys, who are all growing up way too fast.

You can email me at: treymorgan@msn.com

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